Inside the House

This morning i got a call about my youngest daugther's mouth she is a lot like me in the sense that she will go word to word with you if you allow her to,and my brother helped my mother raise her so he has allowed her to do this thus far so he tell's me he want's me to speak to her because he knows i don't tolerated her going word for word with me our any growing ups. so i talked to her,and she tells him that i was real hard on her so he calls me back to say that he help raised her  and he knows her better than me and maybe i was to hard on her.(and maybe i was) but honestly my brother call me and ask me to say something to her because he felt as if he couldn't handle the situation.it makes me angry because sometimes i feel like i am fighting a battle i have no win in.my brother can be a bit much at times.